Yeah, probably good that they went to Survivor. Now I have also insta queues and I still have fun as Killer. Maybe 1/10 games where it's stressful.
About your build, since you're looking for a BBQ alternative:
I'd personally use Thrilling Tremors instead of BBQ if you feel you don't need the points. There isn't much point increasing your Blast radius as by the time you'll get to survivors due to distance they'll already be gone left or right.
Thrilling on the other hand will, while Ruin is active:
And even once Ruin is gone, I feel it'd be just as useful, unlike Surveillance with which you'd need to kick gens from there. You don't lose the detection value, which gens are being worked on as you hook someone?
Also Ruin-Surveillance-Thrilling is probably overkill, choose between Surveillance or Thrilling but don't use both.