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Fibijean

Medicine, law, business, engineering... these are noble pursuits, and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love... these are what we stay alive for.

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  • dont_ask_me_again

    I just want to say with regards to the other day... I respect You and a lot of what you say... I will defend you if I think you’re right and I felt that I needed to be sure of making an emotionally drive on my posts to spur up some change people were asking for.

    I don’t hate anyone here, I probably have Aspergers to some degree (I find that a lot of people have a mildness atleast) that doesn’t fully blind me to how others think but felt not every perspective was being heard at the time.

    Gladly devs have said they are examining the game without ruin meaning toolboxes and gens could see changes which yeah I want to defend the killers that play the game.

    I hope you can see it all comes from a good place... I think you’re a nice person.

    I don’t want to be socially anxious trying to help people and also don’t want to upset people... and it’s hard to ever not do something there.

    Remember people tend to remember the negative things over the positives so do hope you don’t let it outweigh you and stay positive after any discussion you have.

    January 17
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      It's alright. I appreciate you reaching out to explain things. I do understand that most of the criticism people have on the forums is coming from a good place of love for the game and not wanting to see it fail.

      I don't have a problem with criticism in general, but I don't like seeing criticisms levelled at anyone, including but by no means limited to the devs, without much evidence to back them up, because to me it seems unjust. Part of it is that I see a lot of people on the forums get very carried away attacking developers or other members for things that they never said, and so I try to nip that in the bud whenever I see something that looks like it's heading in that direction.

      In particular, though, I get really sick of people on the forums insulting me and other Trusted members, saying that we just always support BHVR no matter what or that we just mindlessly suck up to them and that's the only reason we have the tags. It's unfair, untrue, and frankly insulting because the implication is that we have little to no integrity or capacity for independent thought.

      As someone who struggles with social anxiety and a few Asperger's traits myself, on top of some pretty difficult stuff that's been happening in my personal life, I can definitely understand the difficulties of your situation. If there is anything to forgive, I forgive you, and again, I appreciate you reaching out to me to resolve it, and I hope and trust that no lasting damage was caused on your end 😊
  • Skittlesthehusky

    hey! just checking up on you to see if you're doing a little better. hope your day is an amazing one, fibi. <33

    January 15
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Thank you, that's so sweet of you ❀️ I am in a better place than I was a few days ago, although still a bit fragile πŸ˜… I hope you're doing well yourself!
  • Skittlesthehusky

    just wanted to drop by and give you a personal greeting, since i like to communicate with trusted members, as you guys are definitely the most civil and enjoyable to speak to.

    love seeing you around! thank you for being one of the many stars of the community! hope to chat with you a little more in future threads. <3

    January 11
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Thank you! That's so nice of you to go out of your way to reach out ❀️ You seem like a lovely, positive person yourself, and I look forward to seeing you around as well 😊
    • Skittlesthehusky
      Skittlesthehusky
      of course! and the vision is mutual. cheers to you. ^^/
  • Cornpopers_Evan

    Congratulations on the 5K upvotes Fibi. ^_^

    January 10
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      That's sweet of you, thanks Evan ❀️
  • antgnstea

    Sorry if I seem like offensive against you. I just like discussing issues with you a lot. And sometimes words come out harsh, which is not what I intent at all. Give it that to my poor English writing skills. I value your opinions, and look forward to your contributions into the posts all the time. Just wanted to clear that up.

    January 7
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Not at all! I appreciate a good debate, as long as everyone is able to remain civil and reasonable throughout. I'm not offended in the least, and you weren't coming off that way, so don't worry about it 😊
  • Fibijean earned the 5,000 Up Votes badge.
    You received 5,000 Up Votes. Your ratio of signal to noise is something to be proud of.
    January 5
  • Cornpopers_Evan

    Hi Fibi, I just wanted to run this idea by you for fun. If they remove the pinned comment down soon-ish do you think it would be a fun idea if the mods took a look through the first, lets say, 5-10 pages and pick a discussion they find interesting to pin as a fun little gift? Or do you think that would start arguments of favoritism?

    December 2019
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Anything nice they do has the potential to be turned into something negative - just look at all the complaints on the Holiday Code Hunt thread. That doesn't mean it shouldn't be done.
      Having said that, while something like that could be fun, I also think it's largely unnecessary. The mods already do that with discussions they consider worthy of it, and I feel like it shouldn't be compulsory for them to pin a discussion if they can't find one that they like or find interesting. Particularly since a pin is a form of endorsement, so it's good for them to be selective, as they are now, about which discussions they choose to apply it to.
    • Cornpopers_Evan
      Cornpopers_Evan
      So first off, I now know getting replies on walls don't notify you.
      I definitely agree with what you said in the first part, it really is pretty sad honestly.
      I also didn't know a pinned comment is a form of "endorsement" so thank you for informing me about that. I just thought it could be a fun little "end of the year" thing they could try but I do agree that yeah, they shouldn't feel the NEED to do something like that.
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Yeah, the wall system is a bit funky.
      The only reason I say a pinned comment is a form of endorsement is because the implication of a pin is basically "we, the devs/mods, approve of this topic to the point where we believe it should be seen by as many people as possible". I'm not saying it couldn't be a fun idea, they just need to be careful with how they use it for that reason.
    • Cornpopers_Evan
      Cornpopers_Evan
      Hopefully the rework to the forums fixes the walls.
      Yeah, like I said, just a idea that will probably never happen but thought it'd be fun to think about. :)
      Also, thank you for the clarification on what you meant by "endorsement", alright I'll let you get back to it. Thanks for humoring me Fibi. :D
  • Fibijean earned the 100 Answers badge.
    Admit it, you read Wikipedia in your spare time.
    December 2019
  • Peasant

    For a more practical example of what I am referring to @DocOctober made a layout guide of The Game map. I plan on making an similar map for the rest of the rotation to give folks advice on where to go and what to do.

    So far I only have this though: https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/578297085778984963/653902945653358612/Torment_Creek_Layout_Base.png

    December 2019
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      I thought I remembered DocOctober's guide, but I don't seem to be able to find it again - unless you mean the one that's featured on the official wiki. In any case, I think yours is looking good as a start, and will likely be helpful to a lot of people with that kind of visual/spacial learning style.
    • Peasant
      Peasant
      Yeah @DocOctober's image is used in my guide about the game. But I feel like more map layouts would be useful to the community.
    • Peasant
      Peasant
      Hmm, looks like at least the bare bone layouts have been already made at least: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=871957655
      Now I just need to add in the details from one generation.
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Yeah, more details would be good. If you can manage it, I would also suggest adding some sort of colour or texturing, to imitate what it would look like if one were looking at the map from the top down. Just because a lot of people may find it helpful to be able to visually link what they see on your map with what they see ingame beyond simple shapes.
  • Masantonio

    For some reason I get you and @Liruliniel mixed up.πŸ˜‚

    November 2019
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      That... is a bit weird lol. I wouldn't have thought our names are that similar, and I'm not even Feng anymore! (all Elk's fault for stealing her, obviously :P)
    • Masantonio
      Masantonio
      Honestly, it's because your names kinda look like gibberish to meπŸ˜‚.
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      *gasp* I'm offended!
      Good thing your name makes total sense and doesn't look like gibberish at all ο»ΏπŸ˜‹ο»Ώ
    • Masantonio
      Masantonio
      Sorry, I just have the collective IQ of a baked potato.
      My username is just my Xbox username.
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      I was joking, don't worry :) I don't have a problem with your name lol.
  • Nicholas

    Topic was closed and I never got to reply. I didn't even realize those four cosmetics were released on console and I have two of them lol I thought the entire list was Steam/Convention exclusives that were up for grabs. Thanks for the info.

    December 2019
  • ShrekIsHot

    Lunch money.

    December 2019
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Thanks, bro! I can buy like... a whole half a sandwich with this! Super stoked.
    • ShrekIsHot
      ShrekIsHot
      What type of half sandwich will you order? :)
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      I legit thought about this all night, and I don't know! D: There are too many.
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      I remembered my favourite sandwich filling! Salmon and cream cheese. Although, I'm not sure I could afford half of a sandwich like that with $3AU. Maybe a quarter of a sandwich, then.
  • Fibijean and twistedmonkey earned the 2500 Comments badge.
    Another day, another comment, another badge.
    December 2019
  • Umbrae_pk

    So I have 2 questions about your Ultra-rare background: Why and how?

    Also, thanks for the feedback on my many discussions! :)

    December 2019
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      No worries! :)

      The red background is given to users who are chosen by the community team (mods and Community Managers) as Forum User of the Month, which means they've been recognised as being particularly active or helpful on the forums.

      Most of the people you'll see around the forums with the red background are also Trusted, although there are some exceptions. Basically, all Trusted members are or have been Forum User of the Month, but not all Forum Users of the Month are Trusted. You can find out more about the Trusted tag and how to get it here https://forum.deadbydaylight.com/en/discussion/89809/pilot-the-trusted-members#latest

      I hope that helps. Feel free to ask if you have any more questions!
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Sorry, I forgot to tag you in my reply, and I'm not sure if you get notified that I replied to your comment if it's on my wall. So here, just in case @Umbrae_pk
    • Fibijean
      Fibijean
      Darn... didn't even work. Ah well. Hope you see it anyway, lol.
    • Umbrae_pk
      Umbrae_pk
      haha. Thank you for informing me. That was absolutely helpful, thank you. I had no idea this type of thing happened in the forums... I guess I'm not exploring too deep. Thank you for the continued replies/ support. No wonder you got that background colour :)
  • Fibijean earned the 50 Answers badge.
    Why use Google when we could just ask you?
    November 2019